# It isn't what we say or think that defines us, but... | Jane Austen Quote

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> It isn''t what we say or think that defines us, but what we do.

## What This Quote Means

Truth may be uncomfortable, but it is always more useful than comfortable illusion.

## About Jane Austen

Jane Austen was an English novelist known for her sharp social commentary and beloved novels of manners.

Jane Austen (1775-1817) wrote novels of social observation that combined sharp wit with deep moral insight.

## How to Apply This Wisdom

### Honest inventory

Be truthful with yourself about one area where you have been in denial.

### Speak truth

Share an honest thought that you have been holding back.

### Seek truth

Question one assumption you have been taking for granted.

## Reflection Questions

- Where am I being less than honest with myself?

- What truth am I avoiding that could set me free?

- How does living truthfully affect my relationships?

## More Quotes by Jane Austen

> There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart.

> I declare after all there is no enjoyment like reading! How much sooner one tires of any thing than of a book!

> The person, be it gentleman or lady, who has not pleasure in a good novel, must be intolerably stupid.

> Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.

> Think only of the past as its remembrance gives you pleasure.